In Her Own Words
About her
Warm, genuine and fun-loving with a sunny disposition and a positive attitude to life. Love to laugh and have quite a cheeky streak but have a sensitive and gentle side too. I’m affectionate, demonstrative and loyal and will go to great lengths for those I love. I’m independent, strong and resilient but am equally thrilled to be pampered, spoiled, cherished and treated like a lady. I love to love and feel loved in return.
I enjoy socialising with my fabulous friends, shopping, live music, sports events, theatre and cinema, eating out and in, relaxing on spa days, cooking and baking, walking, taking weekend breaks and holidays - all the usual things. I'm classy but not pretentious, can scrub up or dress down. Happiest in the country, but also love to jump on the train to London to soak up the buzz. I’m not one for lounging around but would love to find someone to cuddle up and just chill with.
I have two adult children of 26 and 22, neither of whom live at home permanently any more, so away from work, my free time is mine….. to share with you…..
I’m here because I was widowed suddenly, 12 years ago. After devoting the initial years to keeping the ship steady and steering my children through their teens, it’s me time now. I’m not looking for someone to keep me or be a father figure to my kids. I’m not interested in serial dating. Just looking for someone for the party times and the quiet times. Not found the right one on here yet but I know I just have to keep kissing frogs till I do… So far I’ve run into way too many old toads … So could the real Kermits please stand up?
About her ideal match
Someone genuine, honest and looking for a real relationship. Someone with a great sense of humour and an ability to stay upbeat through life’s inevitable bumps. Someone thoughtful but who doesn’t overthink. Someone who will banter and keep me on my toes in an affectionate and playful way. Someone who looks after himself but doesn't expect perfection in me. Someone dynamic but equally happy to chill and relax. Someone who is young at heart but knows how to behave like an adult. Someone willing, in time, to share himself and his life, whilst also keeping that all-important time and space for ourselves.
As I still enjoy my career and work full-time, I’d also prefer someone who is either still working or semi-retired so that our life patterns are reasonably in sync.
I don’t have a prescriptive list but above all, there must be the chemistry and spark that we all instantly know.
And please show me photos of YOU, not of your motorbike, your dog (although I adore them), a large fish …. or any other random item!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Abingdon (Wantage), Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district OX14 (Abingdon) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
57 - 62 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Mystery; Romance |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Music; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Golf; Gymnastics; Lacrosse; Rugby; Skiing; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
