52 – Banstead (Near to countryside / fields), Surrey, England

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Banstead (Near to countryside / fields), Surrey, England
Star sign:
5' 8" (173cm)
Body type:
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Relationship Status:
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Want children:
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
IT / Telecoms
Home language:
Other languages:

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Within 100 miles of postcode district SM7 (Banstead)
Age range:
44 - 57
Star sign:
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other; Curvaceous; Full figured
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; Other
Eye colour:
Has a photo:
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Want children:
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Occasionally; Several times a week
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Asian; Indian; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
Other languages:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I am "Sociable" in one word, and I think I am proactive in making it happen.

I am happy in the comforts of home (a good bed, real fire) but happiest when I am outside, visiting and exploring. Hopefully with a special person, as well as family, friends and clubs. I love eating out, mixing with friends, organising trips to the theatre, music (indoors and outdoors), exhibitions, venues, and sites of interest. I also enjoy entertaining and hosting at home, casually as well as formally.

Some would consider me sporty, but that is not how I see myself. I would not make the grade at any serious competitive level, but enjoy taking part non the less. I have tried many activities, and some have stuck, some haven’t. I love to try new things.
A passion of mine is to cycle, but always take time to stop and explore anything stumbled upon. Always via as many pubs, cafes and tea shops/refreshment points as possible (any excuse to stop for a while).

I’ve also enjoyed walking, running, horse riding and skiing. I love the outdoors and the mountains come rain or shine.

Music and Radio (especially Radio 4/6 and Classic FM) are both important to me, and I will always have music playing wherever I am. My tastes are very eclectic, and I’m always looking for something new and different. I love watching films with good company.

I like to take part in Voluntary work with the woodland trust.

About his ideal match

I am looking for someone who enjoys being outside, and likes doing some, if not necessarily all of the activities I do. Like me, I can see my ideal partner being warm, loving, kind, tactile, and not afraid to show affection. I would love to share camp fires, star gazing, good company, and the odd glass of wine snuggling on the sofa, watching a film with them.

What His Friends Say

Rosalind said...

I bonded with Duncan over music - he keeps track of the news, he's a keen amateur photographer and he loves the outdoors (walking and cycling) but he also has eclectic taste in music and an extensive collection. My Spotify account has taken off since I met him and I got a new track every morning when I woke up.

Duncan understands a woman's right to privacy, he's not in any way threatening, he offered to put me in touch with the woman who recommended him before we met. He's the perfect gentlemen and very attentive... when he's not working. I sent Duncan a message and it was the beginning of a beautiful friendship.

Duncan is chatty, supportive, trustworthy and safe. He lost his wife a year ago after a long illness, and he's now ready to meet someone new, Caroline wants this too. She wants him to be happy and live life to the full.

If you like Duncan's profile, drop him a line and if you're not interested, thank him for making contact, it only takes a moment."

Tessa said...

We've been friends for over 20 years and I can heartily recommend your getting to know him.
He's great at involving others and has organised many a cycling holiday, he is particularly gifted at finding windy routes with at least one killer hill(!), always with a comfortable and relaxing place to stay. Duncan is a good group leader as he doesn't beast the group and always looks out for those less experienced to make sure they are enjoying the experience as much as the fittest - if he thinks you still have energy in the tank, be warned to watch out for the suggestion of 'one more loop'!
Duncan is chatty, he's easy to be around, extremely honest and trustworthy and cares a lot about his friends and family.
He's quite witty, is into his music and films (if you hate Star Wars that might need talking about!), but is most at home out in the fresh air.
I think you shouldn't hesitate to make contact if you're interested in the outdoors, have an opinion but don't mind being open to what others think, and would like to meet a genuine guy.

First date icebreaker? After the usual what's your favourite film, song, TV show; so tell me what happens when you're on a skiing holiday, you've ordered too much pizza and have to get back to the chalet?

More about him

Sense of humour:
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush)
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite colour:
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
I wear bifocals
Facial hair:
I have cool side burns
Body hair:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Voluntary work
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Archery; Athletics; Badminton; Baseball; Bodyboarding; Bowling; Camping; Canoeing; Cricket; Cycling; Fencing; Field Hockey; Golf; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Mountain biking; Pool; Rugby; Sailing; Skiing; Snooker; Snorkeling; Softball; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Triathlon; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting; Yoga
I quite like cooking
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I check in once a day
Take drugs:
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s)
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Assertiveness; Power
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream home:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Pursuing a sport or hobby
Feelings about using Velo Dating:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited